Mary-Janice
Well.....here is something to link the 5cs to the newer 5 bs !

I don't need a CAR , but I want a BMW

I don't need a CONDO, but I want a BUNGALOW

I don't need you to have CASH but I want you to own a BANK

I don't need you to have a CAREER but I want you to be a BOSS

It's interesting for you to read!

Most of you would have heard of the Singapore 5C's ! :

Car, Condo, Credit Card(Gold), Cash and Career

Heard of the 5B's? (BY Malaysian's)

B - BMW

B - Body

B - Brain

B - Billionaire

B - Bungalow

And, and addition with the 5K's ......(By Singaporean)

Kiasu (scared of losing)

Kiasee (scared of dying)

Kiabor (scared of wife)

Kiaboh (scared of having nothing)

Kiachenghu (scared of government)

We've been reading about the 5C's for Malaysians and 5K's for Singaporean ,
now comes the 5 Numerals and Malaysia 's equivalent...


Singapore's 'practice' for Simple Living :
1 - One Wife
2 - Two Children
3 - Three Bedroom Condo
4 - Four Wheels
5 - Five Figure Salary

Malaysia's MALAYS 'practice' to Simple Living:
5 - Five Children
4 - Four Wives
3 - Three Figure Salary
2 - Two Wheels
1 - One-Storey Link House
Mary-Janice
As usual...me and my family went to church
but today special, after our lunch me and my hubby went to office to decorate my room for Raya & Deepavali with my colleuages. thanks to my hubby helping me as well...
(where baby Janson??? haha..baby Janson is with my mother, so I can do my things)
yuh...my office of all departments are involve in the competition decoration.
so have to be very CREATIVE and UNIQUE...
u can see in the picture...creative or unique? still in progress...
is up to the judges now...wait the final judging day on 30th October 2008
feel free to comment...haha
will update the finals
Mary-Janice
Last Friday night went for birthday dinner with my colleauges at Look Out Point @ Ulu Langat.
hmmm...let me think
Yuh...this is my 3rd times came to this restaurant
the food not bad...good weather & nice view there
and we also had sparkle juice for FREE!!! but the cake of course we bought
If interested wait until birthday then go there so they might be give the FREE sparkle juice or maybe something else...hehehe
and also really thank to my best friend - Audrey who organized this surprise dinner for Pei Ling's belated birthday :)


Look Out Point Western Food
Lot 1, Kompleks Pelancongan, Menara Tinjau
Jalan Ampang, Selangor.
Mr. Dennison Lukose - 019 250 8379
Busuness Hour:
Sun-Fri : 11am ~ 1am
Saturday : 11am ~ 2am

www.allfoodnet.com/?lookoutpoint
Mary-Janice

haha..yup that's what my mum said he got tooth...(in his 16weeks ++) at the lower mouth pass few days ago.
here's the latest picture on 27th September 2008..
can see white color thingy??
Mary-Janice
PETALING JAYA: Wee Meng Chee (pic), who courted controversy last year by recording a parody of the national anthem, Negaraku, has been asked to present himself at the police headquarters in Bukit Aman tomorrow.

Wee, who recently graduated from a Taiwanese university, said the police contacted his father on Sept 11 and asked the 25-year-old to be at Bukit Aman on the specified date.

“They did not tell him why they wanted me to be present. They just set the date,” he said.

“I guess it is about the Negaraku rap. I am surprised. I thought the matter was laid to rest already as it was more than a year ago.”

Wee, who is staying at his family home in Muar, said his father would accompany him to Bukit Aman.

Wee hoped that by then, he would have engaged a lawyer, preferably “someone who is impartial to politics.”

Last year, while studying in Taiwan, Wee posted a six-minute video clip online, which used the Negaraku in a Mandarin rap.

Some quarters claimed the clip was offensive and disrespectful, but Wee said it was intended to be a satirical social commentary on life in Malaysia as a Chinese and was never meant to insult Islam or the Malays.

He has since apologised, saying that he had no intention to hurt anyone.

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Mary-Janice

Toddlers’ negative habits should be managed positively.

MY son is two and a half years old. He likes to bite his lips when he is sleepy. He picked up this habit when I stopped breastfeeding him at about one year old.

He does it often now – when he is alone, sleepy, watching TV or on long car rides.

Can I put some chilli or minyak angin on his lips to discourage him from biting them? – Concerned Mother

WHEN toddlers develop habits such as nail-biting, hair-pulling, thumb-sucking or lip-biting, parents should find out the cause. To change a habit, parents need to know what triggers the behaviour and use only positive management.

Your son started biting his lips at the time when he was weaned and became more self-aware.

Whenever he feels anxious, worried or lonely, he will bite his lips to channel off negative feelings. According to Dr Alicia F. Lieberman, author of The Emotional Life of the Toddler, as toddlers become more competent and aware of things around them, they will develop fears and insecurities.

Their security base is no longer the same. For example, your son used to find comfort in breastfeeding, but now he is no longer able to do so. At two years of age, your son is becoming more competent and independent but still needs to feel reassured.

He worries about a lot of things such as being left alone or travelling for long periods of time in a car.

You may want to help your child deal with the underlying reason for biting his lips, rather than working at stopping the habit. If you nag him about his lip-biting, he may do it more often to comfort himself.

Before you do anything to get rid of your son’s habit, you must recognise his feelings. Acknowledge them whenever possible so that he knows you are aware of how he feels.

When he is afraid, you can tell him: “You don’t like to be left alone. You are afraid that you cannot see Mummy.”

He may get anxious when he is watching something that is scary on television. Say to him: “You don’t like watching that man on television.” Be watchful to ensure that your child is not exposed to violent acts or display of behaviours that are confusing to a toddler. Keep him occupied with songs and simple games during long car journeys.

Your child needs to be occupied so that he does not bite his lips unknowingly. If he is feeling uncomfortable, try to help him relax by making more frequent pit-stops.

Toddlers fare better when they get a chance to run around to relax. They need to be active after sitting passively for a long time in the car.

Dr Lieberman also cautioned parents that toddlers are affected by the intuitive reactions to their behaviour and responses. If you perceive your toddler positively, and love and accept him unconditionally, he will respond in a like manner.

Keep your expectations reasonable and be attuned to your child’s development. Toddlers do better when they are given an alternative that is pleasing. Instead of telling him to stop biting his lips, try giving him a healthy and tempting snack.

If you try to stop his habit with unpleasant solutions such as ointment or hot peppers, it may make matters worse.

  • The Malaysian Child Resource Institute is organising a series of Sunrise workshops and seminars for parents in Cheras, Kuala Lumpur, every Friday at 7.30am. For more information, call 03-9132 1748 or e-mail mcri@streamyx.com.
Mary-Janice

No human is perfect but, with few exceptions, each one is born with the gift of a mother’s perfect, unconditional love.

I COULD never understand before the parents who decide to have a child already diagnosed with Down Syndrome or other defects while still in the mother’s womb.

I especially couldn’t understand how a victim of rape would want to keep her baby, and how parents with physically and mentally challenged children fuss over them with such love and compassion.

With modern technology, defects can be detected in unborn foetuses so why would anyone bother to give birth to an imperfect child?

It wasn’t until God blessed my husband and me with a little one in my womb that I could comprehend the bond between a mother and her unborn child.

By the end of the first trimester, I had undergone so many tests, including screening for Down Syndrome and other defects. As my doctor announced the good news, I was relieved.

Yet, would it really have made a difference if the results had been otherwise? Would I really have terminated the pregnancy just because the child would have been different?

After seeing him via ultrasound, with all his wriggly toes and fingers, would I really want to abort him just because some test results told me he would not be normal?

Not long after that, I had a chance to experience the fear and anguish from the prospect of losing him.

In my 23rd week, shortly after hubby and I enjoyed a short “baby-moon” in Singapore, I noticed some blood stains one Tuesday night but ignored it as it stopped the following day.

I went to work as usual the next two days. I had a fantastic work-out at my step aerobics class on Thursday evening, and then noticed blood clots that night. I was worried but convinced myself that it was just my panicky self overreacting so I slept on it.

The next morning I went to see my doctor. He did an ultrasound and confirmed that baby was fine, facial features already formed. Yup, definitely the father’s nose.

Then he checked me physically and horror flashed across his eyes.

“Girl, you are dilating!”

My doctor’s countenance said it all €“ something was wrong.

I was diagnosed with cervical incompetence. My cervix was dilating prematurely. I was already in labour. Had I came in later, I might have lost the baby.

He needed to perform a cerclage, a cervical stitch right away. If we were to wait until the following Monday, we wouldn’t know what might happen during the weekend.

But there was a risk of losing the baby. During the operation, even after surgery, the procedure might irritate the womb and there might be contractions anyway. And, at just 23 weeks, the baby was not viable.

I was just looking at baby’s face a few minutes ago! I was terrified, not of the operation but of losing the baby.

I called my husband. Our doctor explained everything to him. After the longest 30 minute deliberation, hubby and I decided that the operation had to be done that day.

When we told our doctor of our decision. I remember telling him over and over again to take care of the baby.

Over the next few hours, hubby made numerous phone calls to friends and family.

A lot went through my mind. It was my fault, all my step aerobics classes, my strength training and body combat classes.

I had been warned many times by my doctor and my in-laws, my family, even hubby but I had chosen to worry more about how I would look after pregnancy than my baby’s well-being.

Yes, it was nice having people commenting on how toned and good I looked at 6 months but what’s the point if I were to lose baby?

And then it was time for me to go into the surgery room. It was cold. I was shivering. I was given a spinal anaesthetic that paralysed me from the waist down for two hours. In the operating theatre, I didn’t know where my legs were. I could hear my doctor giving instructions to his nurses, and the sound of scissors snipping away. It must have been the longest 20 minutes of my life.

When it was all over, I was still shivering, probably from the cold of the operating theatre, or maybe it was from fear.

The first thing I asked doctor was whether baby was all right. The news was good €“ baby’s heartbeat was normal, no contractions.

As I was wheeled out of the OT, I saw my husband. He had stayed outside all along, with no lunch yet. He was obviously worried as well, but him being him he wasn’t about to show any emotions. But he was with me the whole time.

My in-laws had been lighting candles and saying prayers and so was I. Never had I been so “prayerful” in my entire life.

I was soon discharged. I have to go back for weekly check-ups, and I was put on strict bed rest over the next few weeks.

I encountered many sleepless nights as I didn’t know how contractions would feel like. I worried about the stitch tearing, about my waterbag leaking.

At the same time, it was difficult to stay in bed all day, and I was not supposed to step out of the house.

I’ve always been a hyperactive person. If I wasn’t at the gym, I would be singing in the choir, or I would be cleaning the house and preparing baby’s nursery, or shopping for baby’s stuff. Unable to do all these, I spent a lot time crying instead.

I am hitting 30 weeks now, but I have been advised not to go back to work until baby is delivered. It hasn’t been easy as I miss work, I miss human interaction, and I definitely miss my daily activities.

But perhaps this is a blessing in disguise. Now, I know what mother’s love is.

Today, I cannot understand those mothers who dump their babies. Or those unmarried (and married) mothers who carelessly get themselves pregnant and then terminate their healthy pregnancies, time and again. I definitely cannot understand mothers who abuse their own children.

For me, a mother’s love for her unborn child is so sacred and pure that it transcends all things, seen and unseen.

This page is for stories that are heart-warming or thought-provoking. If you have an original one to share, write, in not more than 900 words, and e-mail it to starmag-heart@thestar.com.my. Include your full name, IC number, address, and contact phone number. Stories without these details will not be entertained.

Mary-Janice

Poor Baby Janson..he sick again :'(
And me infected by him as well.. :-(
Please pray for speedy & complete recovery for us. Thank you

Mary-Janice
*PROPER WAY TO USE THE MEDICAL CARD IN CASE OF EMERGENCY!!!*

In cases of Emergency, a matter of LIFE & DEATH (eg. Heart-attack, Strokes, Accidents)
NEVER.. NEVER.. NEVER use a medical card!
Why?....

1. In the emergency room, you will be asked to register and make a 'Deposit' BEFORE the patient is TREATED!
2. When you show the medical card to the doctor MUST complete the claim form and fax to the insurance company BEFORE they can treat the patient. The hospital MUST wait until the insurance company Confirms coverage & limit of policy.
3. ALL these procedures may take 1-2 HOURS!! By this time the patient may have lapsed into a coma!!
4. Use your credit card or Cash FIRST. AFTER the patient has been treated & attended by the doctor, then show the admission counter nurse the medical card. She will then liaise with the insurance company directly for the approvals. She will tear the earlier credit card deposit once the insurance company has approved.
5. By now the patient would have been wheeled into the room to rest or to the surgery room for immediate surgery.

Sincerely we pray no one has to go through such an ordeal.
Share this info with your loved ones, your colleague & friends.

GOD BLESS !!!!!!
Mary-Janice
This is a rare event..having 6 babies after a set of twin daughters...the babies are soooooo cute...


true story from the show "Jon & Kate Plus Eight".. They are cute aren't they? The 6 babies are 3 years old now. Smarter and cheeky! Haahahah…. See how big they are already…

Mary-Janice
I always wonder how this children actor/actresses look after they've grown....and here's one of it...hehe...my hubby favourite show..!!



Mary-Janice

Never be too busy to build bonds with your children.

I WAS aghast when I came across a recent newspaper report that parents spent an average of just eight minutes a day with their children.

What were the parents doing the rest of the 23 hours and 52 minutes? No wonder we read in the papers about children who have gone astray and parents lamenting that they are not able to control their children.

Parents should take full responsibility for taking care of their children. Parenting is a huge on-going task and if one cannot come to terms with that, then one should never embark on being parents.

Below are some guidelines for parents.

Know your child. Who is his best friend in school? Who does he hang around with after school? Better still, meet his friends and have them come over to your place.

Make your home a place where they can hang out and if possible, cook a meal or two for your children’s friends. Also, know who their parents are and more importantly, the contact number and addresses of their buddies so that if anything goes awry you can contact them.

Their friends will think twice if they want to do anything out of the ordinary, after having being acquainted with you.

When was the last time you visited the school? Some parents make it a point to go when they have to collect the report card. Others turn up during the annual Parent Teacher Association meeting. Some never make an appearance in school.

Being an ex-teacher myself, I find that it is imperative for parents to come and meet the teachers, and not only when they are summoned to. When the parents take the trouble to meet the teachers, the teachers will take extra care over the student. Also, the pupil will be wary now that the teacher has met his parents and will think twice before he does mischief or play truant in school.

Aside from that, what about the tuition teachers? Many parents faithfully send their children for tuition and feel they have done their duty. Make it a point to see the tuition teacher to check on your child’s progress. These can be topics of conversation with your children.

One way to make sure that you spend time with your offspring is to have at least one meal with them. Dinner would be good but if you cannot fit it in during weekdays, then try the weekends.

Better still, prepare your children’s favourite dishes, if you know what they are. Sit and chat with them. A joke or two would be good. If you can do that with your friends, why can’t you do that with your family members?

I also advocate visiting the grandparents during the weekends; family bonds are ever so important.

Take the initiative to organise family dos, for example, a picnic with cousins or a barbecue with uncles and aunts. Or there might be enough cousins to have a football game, with fathers and uncles included.

Finally, parents nowadays tend to indulge their children. When both parents are working, they shed their guilt of not spending time with their children by giving them more money than they need. There are expensive toys for the younger ones and PlayStations for the older kids. Many youngsters today are armed with the latest handphones.

Parents should keep a check on their children’s expenditure; perhaps then there will be fewer youths who smoke or while away their time at Internet cafes. We could even eradicate the problem of Mat Rempit if parents keep an eye on their children’s whereabouts.

And so I urge all parents to spend more time with their children. Do not live to regret that you did not have time for them in their formative years.

Marcelen Cox sums it up when she says: “Parents are so busy with the physical rearing of children that they miss the glory of parenthood, just as the grandeur of the trees is lost when raking leaves.”

The best inheritance parents can give their children is to spend time with them.

Mary-Janice

Osteoarthritis may seem to be just a symptom of ageing, but like any medical condition, it needs medical attention.

IF you have known or lived with men and women nearing their retirement age or beyond, you will find many who have experienced the agony of muscle and joint pain.

Their complaints are strikingly similar. Common grouses include pain in their elbows after lifting heavy objects, pain in their knees after a day on their feet and inability to bend down or squat. Some even have difficulty in bending their fingers or reaching for things on higher shelves.

Unlike chest pain, pain in the muscle and joints is often accepted as part and parcel of ageing. It does not create the urgency for those who experience them to consult a doctor immediately – at least not until the pain becomes unbearable and their daily lives are affected.

However, if you are above 50 and have joint pains, the bad news is that you may have some form of arthritis (arthro: joint; itis: inflammation). The good news is, you don’t have to worry about joint replacements yet if you get appropriate treatment early.

“Osteoarthritis (OA) is one of the major causes of disability around the globe that is affecting mankind physically, mentally, socially and financially,” said consultant orthopaedic surgeon Dr Saket Jati.

While rheumatoid arthritis are mostly seen in people about 12 to 40 years of age, people who have osteoarthritis are mostly above 35, said Dr Jati.

In Malaysia, an estimated 60% of the population will have some form of arthritis by the age of 60, particularly osteoarthritis (more than 20%). Rheumatoid arthritis (RA), on the other hand, affects 1% of our population and can affect all age groups.

As there is no cure for osteoarthritis yet, conventional treatments are aimed at giving patients the means to achieve pain-control, increase mobility and maintain a good quality of life. Early diagnosis is the first step in ensuring appropriate treatment.

Osteoarthritis

The joints are essentially two bones with cartilage and fluid in between held together by connective tissue to allow movement and provide support to our body.

Cartilage at the ends of bones and (synovial) fluids in between them act as shock absorbers and lubricants to ensure the bones move in tandem smoothly.

When you have OA, you are experiencing a gradual loss of cartilage from your joints as your cartilage loses its ability to repair itself normally. The smooth surface of cartilage becomes rough and causes irritation to your joint. And with less “cushion” in between, bones eventually rub against each other when you move or carry weight, causing pain and difficulty.

There are two types of OA – primary or idiopathic OA and secondary OA. Idiopathic OA has no identifiable cause while secondary OA can be caused by specific underlying conditions – including previous joint injuries, joint conditions that are present at birth and joint conditions that occur during growth.

Regardless of type, OA is a chronic condition that can gradually worsen over time. Common symptoms of OA are:

  • Pain in a joint during or after use, or after a period of inactivity
  • Tenderness in the joint when you apply light pressure
  • Stiffness in a joint that may be most noticeable when you wake up in the morning or after a period of inactivity
  • Loss of flexibility may make it difficult to use the joint
  • Grating sensation (crepitus) when you use the joint
  • Bone spurs, which appear as hard lumps, may form around the affected joint
  • Swelling (effusion) in the affected joints in some cases

Any joint can be affected by OA, but the most commonly affected ones are joints in the hands,

hips, knees and spine.

The pattern of joint involvement varies between individuals, but unlike rheumatoid arthritis (RA), it often affects joints on one side of the body differently than the other side. There may also be enlargement of finger joints in some OA patients.

Not just an old people’s disease

According to a review paper published by the American Academy of Family Physicians, the exact etiology (cause) of osteoarthritis is unknown. Although OA is strongly associated with the wear and tear of joints through the course of life, it is no longer considered a normal part of ageing, wrote Dr Kenneth C. Kalunian in his osteoarthritis patient information sheet found at clinical information resource website, UpToDate. “Studies suggest that the risk of OA is also influenced by other factors, including heredity, obesity and occupation,” Dr Kalunian explained.

In the same write-up, Dr Kalunian noted that most people with OA have one or more of the following risk factors.

Age. While statistics show that at least 80% of people over age 55 have some x-ray evidence of OA, advancing age remains one of the strongest risk factors of the disorder. Nevertheless, despite an abnormal x-ray, many people have no joint pain or impaired function.

Gender. For unknown reasons, the chances of women developing OA are between two and three times more than men. However, according to the Arthritis Foundation of Malaysia, more than half of men over 65 also developed osteoarthritis.

Obesity. Although the association between obesity and the risk of OA varies for different joints, studies have found that the risk of developing OA is decreased in women who lost weight. Obesity also appears to increase the risk of pain and disabilities to those with OA.

Other risk factors include previous joint injury, higher bone mass, muscle weakness, occupations that require frequent squatting or kneeling and other activities that require heavy lifting, prolonged standing or walking several miles a day.

Sports could also predispose some to the risk of developing OA. According to Dr Kalunian, the risk of developing OA in people involved in certain sports such as wrestling, boxing, cycling, gymnastics and ballet dancing is increased.

But you do not need to hang up your ballet shoes just yet. The risk of developing OA in these sports depend on the initial health of your knee joints and the type of activity (low-impact or high impact).

Repetitive low-impact activity (activities that do not impose high-impact forces on the joints) like cycling is associated with an increased risk of OA in people who have pre-existing knee abnormalities, but not in those who have healthy knees [2].

In contrast, repetitive high-impact activities like wrestling and boxing is associated with an increased risk in both people with or without pre-existing knee abnormalities.

Diagnosing osteoarthritis

It is difficult to identify a definitive diagnostic test because the signs and symptoms could be caused by various kinds of diseases.

Therefore, the diagnosis of OA is based on a consideration of several factors, which include the evaluation of signs and symptoms, results of laboratory tests and x-rays.

Laboratory tests indirectly aid the diagnosis of OA by helping to rule out conditions with similar symptoms. Common tests are the erythrocyte sedimentation rate (ESR) test, rheumatoid factor, and synovial fluid analysis (examination of the fluid in the joints).

Blood tests like the ESR and rheumatoid factor can help doctors distinguish whether your arthritis is a case of OA or RA.

“OA usually do not show blood abnormality,” said President of the Arthritis Foundation of Malaysia and consultant rheumatologist Dr Chow Sook Khuan.

She also added that a synovial fluid analysis will only be performed to exclude other associated conditions like septic arthritis and co-existing inflammatory arthritis. X-rays are helpful for determining the severity of OA in advanced cases, but it is not routinely done for people without symptoms because changes may not be present on x-rays in the early stages of OA.

Treatment and practical solutions

To find out the nature and extent of muskuloskeletal (muscle and bone) pain in Malaysia, consultant rheumatologist Dr Kiran Veerapan, along with Richard Wigley and Hans Valkenburg embarked on a COPCORD (Community Oriented Programme for the Control of Rheumatic Diseases) survey in year 1988.

The survey results, published in the Journal of Rheumatology in the year 2007, showed that 58.8% of those who have rheumatic pain in the study self-medicate with over-the-counter analgesics or other medications that they acquired without prescription.

But is self-medication advisable? According to Dr Chow, although mild analgesics like paracetamol is allowed to relieve pain, if a person has persistent joint pain, especially with signs such as joint swelling, significant morning joint stiffness (more than 30 -60 minutes from awake in morning), loss of joint function (regardless of one or more joints affected), this person must seek medical advice as all those signs and symptoms imply more serious arthritis.

“Early treatment of a serious arthritis can prevent structural damage of the affected joint,” Dr Chow said.

If you are diagnosed with OA, make sure you are well informed about the natural course of osteoarthritis. You can learn about ways to manage your condition and have realistic expectations of the treatments your doctors can offer.

For mild OA pain that is bothersome, but not enough to affect your daily activities, your doctor may prescribe rest, exercise, losing weight, using heat and cold to manage the pain, physiotherapy, over-the-counter pain creams and braces or shoe inserts [1].

While applying heat is often the common method used for pain relief in our community, cold packs can also do the trick. However, if you have poor circulation or numbness, do not use cold treatments. Heat treatment should also be warm, not hot [1].

If the pain persists despite initial treatment, you may require medications for pain-control or to slow down cartilage degradation. “Medicines are used to provide a pain-free, more mobile, efficient and effective lifestyle,” said Dr Jati, adding that analgesics (painkillers) and anti-inflammatory agents should be used with caution as they have possible side-effects.

While there are no proven disease modifying agents for OA, glucosamine, chondroitin sulfate, diacerin and esterified fatty acids may ease pain in some individuals and slow down cartilage degradation in some early cases if they combine the use of medication with non-drug measures, says Dr Chow.

According to Dr Chow, intra-articular steroid injections (injecting small amounts of steroid to the affected joint) can also be used to treat the inflammatory flare-ups associated with knee OA, but it must be done by a trained doctor in accordance to certain guidelines.

However, studies show that the injections are effective only for the short term.


“Early treatment in the form of knee strengthening through exercises is useful. Drug therapy does not halt OA, but since exacerbation prevent people from exercising, pain relief is important,” says Dr Kiran, who is a consultant rheumatologist now based in Canada.

Surgery may be an option for severe OA that is not relieved by other treatments. Joint replacement and debridement (removing loose pieces of cartilage and bone from around your joint) are among the surgical options available [1].

Although medical advances have provided physicians means to help you relieve or lessen the pain caused by OA, a major component of OA treatment lies in your attitude towards the condition.

A positive attitude will go a long way to help you cope with OA. More importantly, it determines how much impact OA will have on your everyday life, despite the pain and disability.

For more information about osteoarthritis, you can visit the Arthritis Foundation of Malaysia website www.afm.org.my.

References:

1. Osteoarthritis, by Mayoclinic.com; http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/osteoarthritis/DS00019

2. Patient information: Features and diagnosis of osteoarthritis, by Kenneth C Kalunian, M.D.; http://www.uptodate.com/patients/content/topic.do?topicKey=arth_rhe/2266

3. Osteoarthritis: Diagnosis and therapeutic considerations, by Ralph Hinton et al., American Academy of Family Physicians; http://www.aafp.org/afp/20020301/841.html

4. Musculoskeletal Pain in Malaysia: A COPCORD Survey, by Dr Kiran Veerapen, Richard D Wigley, and Hans Valkenburg, The Journal of Rheumatology. http://www.jrheum.com/abstracts/abstracts07/207.html

Mary-Janice
LOURDES, France (Reuters) - Pope Benedict, on a pilgrimage to the shrine where the faithful believe the Virgin Mary appeared to a peasant girl 150 years ago, told a crowd on Sunday that love can be stronger than all the evil in the world.

The 81-year-old Benedict said a Mass for more than 150,000 people on a field in the shadow of the sanctuary built over the spot of the apparitions in 1858.

Pilgrims flocked here from dozens of countries for the pope's three-day visit, his 10th abroad and his first to France. Many were in wheelchairs or stretchers and helped by volunteers.

When he arrived on Saturday night, Benedict prayed in the grotto where Bernadette Soubirous said the Madonna appeared and spoke to her 18 times and he drank water from a spring that believers say has healing powers.

In the past 150 years, the Church has recognised as "miracles" more than 65 medically inexplicable healings of sick pilgrims who visited Lourdes.

Benedict, saying Mass from under white canopies shaped like sails, told his listeners to be true to their faith because "it tells us that there is a love in this world that is stronger than death, stronger than our weakness and sins".

Wearing red, white and gold vestments, he told a crowd wrapped in jackets against an unusually cold late summer day that "the power of love is stronger than the evil which threatens us".

"This is an incredible experience for our group, especially for the sick ones," said Sean Luddock, a volunteer who helped lead a pilgrimage of several hundred people from Ireland.

"We come here in the same period every year and this year it just happened to coincide with the pope's visit. What a treat!" he said.

EERIE SILENCE

On Sunday night, an eerie silence fell over a crowd of tens of thousands of people along both sides of the Gave River as the pope led a eucharistic adoration service in which a large communion host Catholics believe is Christ's body was displayed.

He also addressed French bishops and, repeating the Church's opposition to divorce, said they cannot bless "irregular unions," a reference to Catholics who divorced and remarried without a Church annulment.

Since he arrived in France on Friday, the pope has effectively given the country's Catholics a series of pep talks, urging them not to be afraid to live their faith in public despite "laicite", France's separation of church and state.

Religion has re-emerged as a factor in public life, especially because of the growth of Islam, and French Catholics have increasingly spoken out on social issues.

In his homily at Lourdes, the pope told his listeners to reject the concept that praying is "wasting time" and appealled to young people not to be afraid to become priests or nuns.

The once powerful French church is short of priests and fewer than 10 percent of French catholics attend Sunday mass.

Copyright © 2008 Reuters

Mary-Janice

IPOH: Doctored photographs of two Perak DAP assemblymen allegedly performing sexual acts are being distributed via e-mail.

Tebing Tinggi assemblyman Ong Boon Piow, speaking at a press conference yesterday after lodging a police report on Wednesday, said: “I was shocked when I opened my e-mail to see a nude photo of myself with a woman.”

Ong said the e-mail he received was dated Sept 9 and was sent to him at 8.23pm by a person named Lee BT.

“I believe the doctored photograph is a dirty tactic used to assassinate my character,” he said.

He said he had given the picture and details of the sender to the police.

Canning assemblyman Wong Kah Woh, who was also present at the press conference, said doctored photographs and a video clip showing him in an alleged sex romp with a woman was also being circulated via e-mail.

“I first came to know of the pictures in June but I chose to ignore them,” he said, adding that he did not lodge a police report.

“The culprit is just insulting the intelligence of the people by doctoring our photographs and circulating them,” he said.

Wong believed the photographs of him and Ong were downloaded from a website of a DAP leader who posted pictures of Perak DAP leaders attending various events here.

In June last year, doctored photographs of Batu Gajah MP Fong Po Kuan, Beruas MP and Sitiawan assemblyman Datuk Ngeh Koo Ham, Taiping MP and Pantai Remis assemblyman Nga Kor Ming and former Menglembu assemblyman Keong Meng Sing were also circulated via e-mail.

A police report was lodged and the Perak DAP had offered RM5,000 to those with information on the culprit who doctored their photographs.

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KUALA KUBU BARU: A man has been arrested in connection with the discovery of the body of a woman in a rubbish pile here last Friday.

Sources revealed that the man, in his 30s, has been remanded for seven days since Wednesday to assist in investigations. Police will conduct a DNA test on the body against that of two families who had come forward to identify her.

“Both families were not able to identify the body because it was badly burnt, but agreed to a DNA test,” the sources said.

It is learnt that doctors who conducted the post-mortem estimated the victim’s age at between 30 and 40 years old.

Passers-by in a secluded area in Kampung Koskan, Serendah, near here, stumbled upon the burning body of the woman at 8.45am on Friday. No identification documents were found on her.

Police did not rule out the possibility that the woman could have been killed elsewhere. Yesterday, Hulu Selangor OCPD Supt Norel Azmi Yahya Affendi said the woman was believed to have been suffocated before she was set on fire.

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GEORGE TOWN: Five men gang-raped an Indonesian maid after they used chloroform to overpower her in Bukit Dumbar here.

OCPD Azam Abd Hamid said the maid, in her early 20s, was walking along the road on Monday when she was bundled into a car and taken to an unknown place.

“When she woke up a few hours later, she found five masked men standing over her naked body. She was then told to dress up. One of them drove her back to the place where she was abducted.

“The victim subsequently made a report at the Jelutong police station. She was then sent to the Penang Hospital where an examination confirmed that she was raped,” he said yesterday.

In another case, two men were arrested in connection with a RM250,000 goldsmith robbery in Campbell Street on Aug 13.

ACP Azam said the two were nabbed in Kuala Lumpur and handed over to the district police on Tuesday.

“We are still looking for their two accomplices who have been identified. The loot has yet to be recovered,” he said.

In another incident, more than 20 people have been cheated by a woman of about RM100,000 in a low-cost housing scam in Balik Pulau district.

The woman, in her 30s, claimed to be the special assistant of an assemblyman and collected between RM5,000 and RM6,000 from each person as downpayment for the low-cost flat units in Sungai Nibong late last month.

The victims were earlier told that a few units had been put aside for them but they needed to come up with some downpayment.

They realised they had been cheated after finding out that the units had all been taken up.

Sources said police reports were lodged at the Bayan Lepas police station after repeated calls to the woman’s handphone went unanswered.

The sources said the case was being investigated as cheating under Section 420 of the Penal Code.

Police believe more people could have been cheated but have yet to lodge reports.

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MIRI: A young man died after he was beaten up and impaled with a sharp weapon during a gangster-style attack by a group of youths in the city here.

The deceased, believed to be in his late 20s, sustained a gaping hole in his chest after he was believed to have been set upon by the gangsters in two vehicles at about 4am yesterday.

The victim, who was with a group of friends were in two cars when they were attacked near the city’s main highway.

According to a police investigator, eyewitness accounts said that before the fatal attack, four vehicles were involved in a high-speed chase along the highway.

“Two cars were seen speeding and tailing two other cars in front of them. The four vehicles came to a stop after the two cars (giving chase) forced the two in front to the side of the road,” he said.

“A group of youths alighted from the two cars. Armed with what looked like steel weapons, they were shouting and screaming at each other and a fight ensued.

“Before long, the victim was seen slumped on his back. The assailants sped off before the police arrived,” he said.

A source said the police were investigating the possibility that the fatal attack might have been sparked by an earlier confrontation between the occupants of the four cars.

The police were also investigating the possibility that they had gathered somewhere else before the car-chase, possibly a bar or an entertainment centre.

Miri police chief Asst Comm Jamaluddin Ibrahim appealed to eyewitnesses to contact the nearest police station.

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KUALA LUMPUR: MCA Youth chief Datuk Liow Tiong Lai has proposed for new legislation to govern racial relations, encourage greater unity and avoid discrimination among races in the country.

“The Race Relations Act I’m proposing should be looked into by the Unity, Arts, Cultural and Heritage Ministry,” he said after launching the 14th annual general meeting of the Federation of Malaysian Clans and Guilds Youth Association on Sunday. He said the Ministry should study the feasibility of such a law because it did not have any Acts currently to support its efforts to achieve greater racial unity in the country.

Unity, Arts, Cultural and Heritage Minister Datuk Shafie Apdal could not be reached for an immediate comment.

Liow, who is Health Minister also, said that the Internal Security Act (ISA) must be reviewed so that it was not abused by any quarters to undermine national unity, security and stability.

“The whole thing must be studied. Certain people still think that the ISA serves a certain purpose in ensuring the safety and harmony of the country,” he added.

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KUALA LUMPUR: The Muslim Consumers Association of Malaysia (PPIM) and the Islamic NGOs, Heritage Associations, Malay Cultural Organisations and Related Bodies Cooperation Network (Pewaris) have lodged police reports against Selangor state executive councillor Teresa Kok.

The reports were made by Pewaris advisor Rahimuddin Md Harun and PPIM Complaints Officer Mohd Nor Imran Yusuf at the Sentul district police headquarters at 11am on Sunday.

The reports were lodged over an allegation by former Selangor Mentri Besar Datuk Seri Dr Mohamad Khir Toyo that Kok had tried to prohibit the “azan” call to prayer at mosques and surau in Kota Damansara, Sri Serdang and Puchong Jaya.

Kok has denied the allegations and said she would seek legal recourse against Khir and a Malay daliy that had reported his allegations. Additionally, Kota Raja MP Dr Siti Mariah Mahmood lodged a police report against Khir on Sept 11.

Meanwhile, Rahimuddin told reporters later Sunday that the police reports were lodged because Kok’s alleged statements could hurt the feelings of the Muslim community.

“We have made the reports so that the police can carry out the investigations on her because it is feared that the statements can spark racial animosity in Malaysia,” he said.

PPIM secretary-general Datuk Dr Ma’amor Osman said in a statement that PPIM supported the government’s detention of Kok, Malaysia Today editor Raja Petra Kamarudin and Sin Chew Daily reporter Tan Hoon Cheng under the Internal Security Act (ISA) on Friday. Tan was released on Saturday.

“The detentions are proof that the Government does not remain silent in matters involving racial sensitivities and the Federal Constitution.

“Matters such as these should be viewed seriously because, if ignored, they could incite hatred in the people, especially the Malays, because their special position has often been disputed by certain quarters,” he claimed. -- Bernama

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Still remember??
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EFFECTIVE AUGUST 12, 2008

NEW OFFICE POLICY

Dress Code:

1) You are advised to come to work dressed according to your salary.
2) If we see you wearing Prada shoes and carrying a Gucci bag, we will assume you are doing well financially and therefore do not need a raise.
3) If you dress poorly, you need to learn to manage your money better, so that you may buy nicer clothes, and therefore you do not need a raise.
4) If you dress just right, you are right where you need to be and therefore you do not need a raise.

Sick Days:

We will no longer accept a doctor's statement as proof of sickness. If you are able to go to the doctor, you are able to come to work.

Personal Days:

Each employee will receive 104 personal days a year. They are called Saturdays & Sundays.

Bereavement Leave:

This is no excuse for missing work. There is nothing you can do for dead friends, relatives or co-workers. Every effort should be made to have non-employees attend the funeral arrangements in your place. In rare cases where employee involvement is necessary, the funeral should be scheduled in the late afternoon. We will be glad to allow you to work through your lunch hour and subsequently leave one hour early.

Toilet Breaks:

Entirely too much time is being spent in the toilet. There is now a strict three-minute time limit in the stalls. At the end of three minutes, an alarm will sound, the toilet paper roll will retract, the stall door will open, and a picture will be taken. After your second offence, your picture will be posted on the company bulletin board under the 'Chronic Offenders' category. Anyone caught smiling in the picture will be sectioned under the company's mental health policy.

Lunch Break:
* Skinny people get 30 minutes for lunch, as they need to eat more, so that they can look healthy.
* Normal size people get 15 minutes for lunch to get a balanced meal to maintain their average figure.
* Fat people get 5 minutes for lunch, because that's all the time needed to drink a Slim-Fast.

Thank you for your loyalty to our company. We are here to provide a positive employment experience. Therefore, all questions, comments, concerns, complaints, frustrations, irritations, aggravations, insinuations, allegations, accusations, contemplations, consternation and input should be directed elsewhere.

The Management
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All snap by Sony Ericsson K850i & K550i (below 3 pictures)Thank you granny Stephanie to make baby Janson sleep...



Baby Janson: 'Yum yum..daddy...I want this!' *He point at the menu*
Baby Janson: ' hmm...'Baby Janson: ' woo~ I want to eat... '
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Congratulations to my friend~
I named her " Triple 'L' " cause her full name all start the first letter 'L'
and she is my secondary school friends involve in band.
Yup..she is married and is TODAY (14th Sept 2008) is her big day...
Thank you inviting us for your dinner...waiting for your up coming BABY
hehehe :P
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Yup yup..It's Sunday
and I always like to take picture for the beautiful flowers...
and baby Janson he sleep through the service in the nursery room with new carpet
u see baby Janson...so comfortable for him...
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Now I'm back to my blogging life..wuahaha~
Here's my lovely husband and baby Janson (did u notice they r wearing almost the same teddy bear shirt??)

He is sleeping in my office...looks like he really tired...
anyway Thanks my hubby who taking care baby Janson while I'm working in the office...
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Yup..Baby Janson getting better now...but still have nose block
Here's the picture we took yesterday...on public holiday, 1st September 2008
just for fun to snap his picture...hahaha
hahaha..he is doing silly faces
Isn't he so cute~
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Ahhh~!!!
Someone HELP me...why my laptop like this?? Isn't it because last time the service man did anything with my laptop??
first I on my laptop then key-in my NEW password after become like this....!!!